Life is a series of choices. Some are simple—like what to wear. Others are life-altering—like which career to pursue or who to marry. Regardless of size, every decision shapes our journey. Yet many people either rush into choices emotionally or delay endlessly out of fear and confusion. What if decision-making didn’t have to be overwhelming? Here is a step-by-step framework that blends wisdom, clarity, and even spiritual insight to help you make sound, confident decisions. 1. Ask the Right Question Before deciding what to do , clarify what you’re deciding about . Many people feel stuck simply because they haven’t properly defined the issue. What exactly is the choice before me? What outcome am I aiming for? A problem well-defined is half-solved. 2. Gather Information Good decisions are built on accurate input. Facts — Research relevant data. Wise Counsel — Seek opinions from trusted people or experts. Alternatives — List out all realistic options. Don’...

“And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose.” — Romans 8:28 (NKJV) There are verses we quote casually and verses we only truly understand when life presses us. Romans 8:28 is usually the latter. It is not a coffee-mug slogan. It is a survival anchor. Because let’s be honest: Not everything feels good. Not everything looks good. Some seasons of life are painful, confusing, and seemingly unredeemable. So how can the Apostle Paul boldly claim that “all things” are working together for good ? The key is in understanding how God works. God Is a Master Weaver — But We Only See the Threads Life often looks like a table full of disconnected events—some joyful, some tragic, some that make no sense at all. But God is not reacting; He is orchestrating. He sees the tapestry from above while we only see tangled strings underneath. Joseph was betrayed by family — yet God used it to save nations. ...

There are moments in life when the facts are the same, yet the conclusions people draw are completely different. Some see problems, others see possibilities. Some see defeat, others see opportunity. 🌄 Two Groups, Two Reports Moses sends twelve men to scout the Promised Land. Their mission is not to debate whether they should go in — God had already promised the land — but simply to confirm its richness and bring back a report. This is noted in Numbers 13 and 14. When they return, everyone agrees on the facts: The land is fertile and beautiful. The people are strong and the cities are fortified. There are giants living there. But the interpretation of these facts splits into two reports: The Majority Report (10 spies): “The land is good, but the giants are too strong. We felt like grasshoppers compared to them. We cannot win.” The Minority Report (Joshua and Caleb): “The land is exceedingly good. Yes, there are challenges, but God is with us. We can surely take ...

  It’s a phrase that rolls off the tongue so naturally: “So, what do you do?” Whether at a wedding, a networking event, or meeting a stranger for the first time, this question has become the default icebreaker. But here’s the uncomfortable truth: asking someone “What do you do?” is often the worst way to get to know them. It reduces, boxes, and sometimes even wounds people. In fact, it says more about us — and our assumptions — than it does about them. 🎭 It Reduces People to Their Jobs When you ask “What do you do?”, what you’re really asking is: “What is your occupation?” The assumption here is that a job equals a person’s identity. But people are far more than their titles. A nurse might also be a poet and the anchor of her community choir. A matatu conductor could be a brilliant entrepreneur building an online hustle on the side. A stay-at-home dad might be shaping his children’s lives in ways no salary can measure. By starting with “what do you do?”, you flatten a whole human ...

  In a world chasing quick wins, shortcuts, and overnight success stories, there’s one quality that quietly outperforms them all: consistency . You don’t need to be the smartest, the most talented, or even the most connected to succeed. What you need is the discipline to keep showing up, day after day . Talent may give you a head start, but consistency is what takes you to the finish line. 🚀 Why Consistency Outshines Everything Else Small Steps Compound – Just like investments, consistent actions multiply over time. Ten minutes of daily reading builds more knowledge than one weekend marathon. Trust and Reliability – In business and relationships, people value those they can depend on. Showing up consistently builds credibility. Focus Amid Distractions – In an age of noise and endless options, consistency cuts through the chaos and creates direction. 🧠 Consistency Is a Skill, Not a Trait Many people think consistency is just “for the disciplined.” But in realit...

In some communities in Africa, circumcision has long been seen as the defining line between boyhood and manhood. For generations, once a boy underwent the rite, he was expected to shed childish ways and embrace the responsibilities of an adult. This perception created a sudden shift in identity : overnight, a boy became “a man.” But perhaps it’s time we asked ourselves — is manhood really something that happens in a single moment? Or is it a longer journey of growth, learning, and responsibility? 🎓 The New Education System, Old Traditions Traditionally, in Kenya for instance (especially Central Kenya) circumcision has often been timed after Class 8 . It was a neat cultural alignment: boys completed primary school, then transitioned to secondary school as young men. But with the introduction of the 2-6-3-3 system (CBC) , this rhythm has been disrupted. Learners now transition to the next level of the system until after Grade 9 (the third 3 in the system). Parents are left asking: ...

Life has a way of throwing us into situations where the path isn’t clear. A big decision. A painful loss. A new challenge. Or even the quiet restlessness of not knowing what’s next. We’ve all been there — standing at a crossroads, paralyzed between options. So, what should you do when you don’t know what to do? Why We Feel Stuck Before diving into solutions, it helps to understand why this happens. Common causes include: Overwhelm: Too many tasks or possibilities make it hard to choose. Fear of making the wrong choice: Worry about consequences can freeze action. Lack of clarity: Uncertainty about goals or priorities creates a mental gridlock. Decision fatigue: Constant decision-making drains mental energy, making even simple choices feel impossible. Recognizing that this is normal is the first step. Feeling stuck isn’t a personal failing—it’s a signal that you need focus and small, intentional actions. 1️⃣ At the Moment (Short-Term Response) Sometimes the hardest part is just not pa...